Thomas Vincent Spicci, age 67, died on Saturday, December 12th in Durham, NC. Tom was born in Washington, D.C. to the late Morris and Marie Sullivan Spicci.
Tom graduated from Archbishop John Carroll High School in Washington, D.C. in 1966. He was drafted in 1968 and served two years in the Army.
Tom is survived by his two loving children, Sarah Spicci and Phillip Spicci, both of San Diego, CA; his “sweetie” Shelley Carraway of Durham, NC; brother Mo (Becky) Spicci of Kent Island, MD; sisters Mary (Ed) Love of Bethesda, MD; Sheila (Dan) Slattery of Bethesda, MD; Liz (Joe) Baldini of Silver Spring, MD; five nieces five nephews; 3 grandnieces and 2 grandnephews.
A visitation will be held at 1:00 – 2:00 pm on Wednesday, December 16 with a Mass of Christian burial immediately following at 2:00 pm Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Durham, NC.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to www.support.woundedwarriorproject.org
Arrangements for the Spicci family are under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service in Durham. Online memorials www.hallwynne.com.
Carol Potter
Shelley and Tom’s family – we are so deeply sorry to hear this sad news. Please know we are thinking of you and mourn with you during this difficult time. love, Carol and Sam Potter
Ginny Liberatore
Loss is never easy, So sorry for your loss at this special time of year. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Liberatore Family
Maheba
Sarah and Spicci family- my deepest condolences . I know you enjoyed many laughs, adventures, and great times that will continue to bring a smile to your face; cherish those moments. May he RIP and God bless his soul and your family.
Kim Herman Sentman
Dear Liz and family,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your brother especially at such a family oriented time. Please know tha I will be lifting you and your family up in prayer. I hope the new year brings you all peace. Extending you my deepest sympathy.
Fondly,
Kim Herman Sentman
Lucy Collins
We are so sorry about your loss
With love the Collins family
Barbee
We will miss you Tom. Heaven gained a sweet and fun angel!
Mike & Phoebe Manders
So very sorry for your loss. Will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Bruce & Chrissy Kirkeng
Sarah & Phillip: A person that departs from this earth never truly leaves, for they are still alive in our hearts and minds, through us, they live on. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. Please accept our sincere condolences.
BETTY ANN BURNS
SO SORRY FOR LOSS TOMMY WAS GOOD PERSON SENDING PRAYERS AND LOVE COUSINS BETTY ANN AND MICHAEL RAMUNDO BURNS
Char Kurihara (Corp. VP of Sales & Marketing)
Tom will be deeply missed here at Dan Ryan Builders. He was such a loving and kind hearted gentleman. Everyone that knew him thought the world of him. I am so truly sorry for your loss.
Joyce and Walt Sanders and Paul Dahlby
Sarah & Phillip: Please accept our condolences to you and your family on the passing of your father. May fond memories bring you comfort during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim Cirimele
Tom and I were very close friends and he is one of the sweetest persons I have ever known. For many years, we would meet for lunch twice a month to catch up, and laugh our assess off. His kindness, positive outlook, and happy face will surely be missed. I loved you Tom.
Mike, Shannon (Crimmins) and Griffin Bailey
Sarah and Phil-
Our thought and prayers our with you!!! May he live on in your thoughts and memories!!!! Wish we could be with you to help celebrate his life!!!!
Shanna Williams
To the Spicci Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of lose. Tom was a friend and colleague
Buz Thompson
I grew up with Tommy. We were neighbors. When he was in high school, on his way home he would pass our house. My mother would invite him in and give him a glass of wine. They would just sit there and talk. He was so loved by everyone even back then . I made his wedding bands for him and his wife. Sarah , Phil and family, my condolences.
Sandy
Dear Liz,
I am so sorry to hear about your brother. Please know You are in our prayers and thoughts.lots of love to you and your family
The Laverys
Lisa & Ed Bouley
Sarah and Phil, your dad was one cool cat, just like you two. I know he will be deeply missed, but you will always have all those wonderful memories that you will keep close to your heart. We’re thinking of you both and the rest of the family that lost this wonderful man. RIP Tom.
Joe Matthews
Tom was a very dear friend. We had common clients in many neighborhoods. It was a pleasure talking to Tom every time; he would talk about his children, about the business, about Church and he would ask me about the Indian Catholic Church here in Apex. A great man, a very happy and positive person I was fortunate enough to come to know. With great memories!
Shellie Von Ruden
Sarah and Phil, I cannot tell you enough how sorry I am to hear of your Dad’s passing. He will always bring smiles to many people when they think of him. He was a kind, classy, fun man. He brought two wonderful people into this world who I truly love and am grateful for! Cherish all those wonderful times and memories with a great father! Sending you both BIG hugs!
Love you both!
Shellie Von Ruden
Jim and Terry Sullivan and family
Tommy had the brightest smiles and spirit, and will be missed in this world. Our prayers are with all of his family and loved ones. May the memories lighten your spirits.
Larry and Rita Forbes
Sarah and Phil…our thoughts are with you during this sad time. We wish we could be there in person to give you a hug. Love you guys.
Pam Saunders
Tom was a wonderful, sweet and caring man, and will be missed dearly. He talked of his family often, he was so proud. This year he will celebrate his first Christmas with Jesus, what a blessing.
Harry & Ruth Gore, Maggie & Rosemary
Sarah and Phil Spicci family,
Thinking of you, you have our sympathy. Love and prayers.
Rita Forbes
Sarah & Phillip,
It is so difficult to lose a loved one, particularly your dad. He was so young and such a vibrant person.
The Forbes family sends our condolences and remembers fondly the days in our old Sparta neighborhood.
Hugs to you both…..
Mary Pietanza
Sarah and family – I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you prayers, best wishes and thoughts of happy memories with your dad.
Alan Curtis
Grew up in the same neighborhood as Spicci family. Was blessed to see Tommy & Mo this past June at a neighborhood reunion. May the Lord provide comfort to all of his family. RIP Chillum comrade!