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Linda “Gayle” Amshay

Posted By Hall-Wynne On March 12, 2019 @ 2:33 pm In Durham,Obituaries | 15 Comments

MEBANE – Linda “Gayle” Amshay, 61, was called home by her Lord and Savior on Tuesday, March 12th, 2019.  Gayle was born on July 7th, 1957 in Durham, NC. She attended UNC-G graduating with a BS in Education which she utilized throughout her life.  Teaching was not only her occupation but Gayle’s passion.  She loved her students and they loved her!  She had many fulfilling years teaching at Grey Stone Preschool & Kindergarten.

She is survived by her husband, Don of 35 years; daughter, Lara; mother, Mildred Doby; brother, Ronnie Doby and sister, Jackie Brady (Barry).  Nieces Whitney Johnson (Matt) with Carter & Mackenzie and Lindsay Miller (Justin) with Kylie & Ava.

Family was extremely important in her life where for many years she lived beside her parents with Don and Lara.  Whether it was mowing their grass, raking pine straw or just walking over for a visit, Gayle was always there.  She enjoyed the family beach weeks and we mean “whole family” beach weeks.  As you may suspect there were moments we often wanted to forget but Gayle’s journaling or later Facebook postings prevented that from happening.  It was fun in the later years for the family to gather together and listen to Gayle read from her journal.  We truly had many laughs together

Gayle was devoted to anything she did!  One of her top priorities was being a devoted wife and mother.  As a mother, she assisted, attended and supported Lara in her many activities like chorus, sports and their nightly walks.  She enjoyed organizing and hosting Fourth of July cook-outs where she displayed her patriotism in many forms and ways as she decorated everything in sight, red, white & blue.  Oh don’t forget the pledge also.  Gayle enjoyed planting and working with flowers in her yard as well as her parents yard.  She valued the many family trips which included, Hawaii, Outer Banks, California and her favorite place of all … Washington DC.

Gayle displayed her commitment to her Savior with her walk and service for Him.  This incorporated fulfilling many roles with the church at Northgate Chapel.  These roles included piano playing, Sunday School, Awana, choir and practical hospitality.  She was a faithful servant for many years.

Now Gayle is present with the Lord, the one she loved and adored.

Psalm 116:15

Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints.

Funeral services will be held at Northgate Chapel, 3207 Duke Homestead Road, Durham, NC 27705, on Friday, March 15th, 2019 at 2:00 PM with a visitation from 12:45 PM – 1:45 PM. The Amshay family is under the care of Hall-Wynne Funeral Service.

In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Mountain Top Youth Camp at 1460 Mackay Lane, Pinnacle, NC 27043.

Condolences for the family of “Linda “Gayle” Amshay”

Condolence from Jim & Lorraine Beatty on March 12th, 2019 5:08 pm

Dear Mildred,

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. It must be so difficult to lose a child. We are grateful to know that she is with the Lord, but also know that you will miss her so much. You have our sympathy and our prayers.

Love in Christ,

Jim & Lorraine Beatty

Condolence from Roni and Stephen Squire on March 13th, 2019 12:09 pm

Our thoughts and prayers are with Gayle’s sweet family. What a faithful life lived for the Lord. She will be greatly missed by the many lives she touched. He was a precious friend and loved dearly.

Condolence from Marsha Hocutt on March 13th, 2019 12:29 pm

We will miss Gayle’s smile and her encouraging words. She was an inspiration to everyone around her.

Condolence from Chris Facci on March 13th, 2019 1:47 pm

Kerrie & I extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your beloved wife Gayle.
May she experience the joy of eternal life now with the Lord she served through her days on earth.
May you and your family take comfort in your faith and call on it to get you through this very difficult time.

With our Deepest Sympathies
Chris & Kerrie Facci

Condolence from NANCY MITCHEM on March 13th, 2019 3:50 pm

Praying that the LORD wraps His arms of love and mercy around the family.

Condolence from Steve Levsey on March 13th, 2019 4:24 pm

Don and Family,

We are truly sorry for your loss of Gayle, a loving wife and mother and dearest friend.

Our prayers and with you!

Steve & Bridget Levsey

Condolence from Beverly Green on March 13th, 2019 4:58 pm


Thinking of you during this difficult time. May
you find peace in cherished memories.

Beverly Green

Condolence from Don Leathers on March 14th, 2019 6:37 am

Don, Mildred, and all of family; so sorry for your temporary separation and loss. So very happy for Gayle’s GAIN ! Philippians 1: 21

Condolence from Missie Weir on March 14th, 2019 5:22 pm

What a beautiful obituary. So very sorry for the loss of Gayle. Absent from the body, present with the Lord.

Condolence from Christine Mabe on March 15th, 2019 8:30 am

I only met Miss Gayle one time, but after years of knowing and working with her daughter, Lara and hearing Lara talk about her parents, it was evident to me just how much Miss Gayle loved and cherished her family, and how much of a champion and supporter she was of her daughter. I know she will be missed dearly by her family. So thankful you all have such joyful and fond memories of her and can rest easy knowing she is no longer in pain and is walking with God and tending to Heavenly flowers.

Condolence from Tara Harris on March 15th, 2019 9:58 am

Mildred and family, we’re so sorry to hear of Gayle’s passing. We hope that you find comfort knowing that she is with her maker and no longer in pain. May the memories help to get you through this difficult time. Thinking of you and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. With Love, The Harris Family (Jay, Tara, Braelyn, and Tate)

Condolence from Emily Dalmata on March 15th, 2019 11:59 pm

Lara and Family,
Wishing you peace, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
Emily Dalmata & Family

Condolence from Nick Turner on March 16th, 2019 10:39 am

Dear Lara and Amshay family – Gayle was like an angel among us here on Earth! I am thankful for the time and memories I’ve known her as I am sure you are too. Prayers for God’s peace and comfort now and for days to come. I am thankful for the hope we have through Jesus Christ that we will meet again! God bless y’all,
Nick Turner

Condolence from Gerald and Susan Stephens on March 23rd, 2019 8:44 am

Don, we are so sorry for your loss of Gayle here on this earth. We just learned of it yesterday. We will be praying for your dear family and you. What good times we have shared at the conferences we attended over the years and what special memories! As we said we will keep you in our prayers.

Condolence from William McBride on April 6th, 2019 4:50 am

Dear Mildred , Don and Lara.
I was so saddened to learn just last week of Gayle’s passing. So many times during my year in DUMC in 1995-96 I was privileged to experience the unstinting unconditional expression of practical Christian love and fellowship in your homes and Gayle together with Don and Les and Mildred made those sweet memories so unspeakably special . Gayle is now together with beloved Les where there are no more partings with Him Whom we love .Please please contact us williamthomasmcb@doctors.org.uk. With warm Christian love , William (and family)

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